Tuesday, June 5, 2007

Working mother.

The wisdom of women has been passed from one to another, from a mother-in-law to her daughter-in-law and so on. Mothers have been always a rich source of love and caress, and it is rightly said,” Since God cannot be everywhere, he created mothers". That sums it all. No matter how much anyone gets outside, but the pure and unconditional love of a mother is something which can not be substituted by anything, just anything.

In the modern era, where the financial needs of a home can be hardly met with the money brought in by the male counterpart, and when the self-respect and independence status of the women has reached new heights, the culture of working women has crafted itself in several ways. And the society consider women as incomplete unless the birth of her child, and then the come the concept of a working mother.

The modern life makes it hard for the women of today to strive for her professional and home goals as they have to strike a balance between the two. And that’s not a easy task. The responsibilities of tough office life coupled with the demands of the family, husband and children makes the life of women more complicated and her tasks more gruesome.


It is normally believed that the presence of children in the family infuses a great energy and bearing the hard responsibilities of the office does bring the better side of the parenthood in the women.

Being a working women do have some of its own benefits, such as:

1. Earlier socialization of the child.

2. Inspiration for children of a groomed personal identity and mental life.

3. Independent children with a sense of responsibility.

There would always be debates whether a mother should be working or not, as working women are assumed to neglect the primary want of their children that is the presence which is witnessed by the child during his heydays of childhood. The children are left to be cared by crèches and caretakers or left to hostel and that creates a negative impact on the mind of the children.

However a working mother also brings some benefits to her children such as the desire to achieve personal goals, independency, and a sense of family. They do work hard for attaining equilibrium in both the professional and home fronts.

The success of the working women depends upon a great extent to her spouse who can make a vast difference in striking a balance for her, by making it comfortable by dividing the duties and routine household work to be performed by her and encouraging her to excel in her sphere of life and let attain her ambitions and goals.
To conclude, a working mother is far more effort-maker than a normal housewife as she is entrusted with the task of managing the best of the home and the office.

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